Calming The Waters: Seven Days Of Inspiration And Prayer For Cancer Patients($11.49Value)

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The book is an inspirational book designed to encourage Cancer patients to explore alternatives to "moping" and having "pity" parties. It is hoped that the reader is motivated to live life to its" fullest by engaging in the activities and they find peace in the spirital verses from the Bible. Calming the Waters Seven Days of Inspiration and Prayer for Cancer Patients By Velma L. Crumbley AuthorHouse Copyright © 2010 Velma L. Crumbley All rights reserved. ISBN: 978-1-4520-2397-7 Contents Dedication, v, Foreword, ix, Introduction, xi, Day One Acceptance, 1, Day Two Preparation, 5, Day Three Appreciation, 9, Day Four Create an Oasis, 13, Day Five Reflections, 17, Day Six Faithfulness, 19, Day Seven Gratitude, 23, Every Day Keeping your Head above the Water Instead of Wallowing in It!, 25, Notes Possible Side Effects, 27, Inspirational Music, 29, Afterword, 31, About the Author, 35, CHAPTER 1 Day One Acceptance Keep Praying and Wait on the Lord! -Unknown Acceptance is a monumental step. You must acknowledge the fact that you are ill, not necessarily sick, but your life is going to change. Take time to digest the information and gather as much information that you can through pamphlets and WebDr.com. If possible, talk to others who have been through what you are about to embark upon. But know that you are unique and your treatment plan may be different and your side effects may be different from theirs. Keep things in perspective and stay optimistic. Know that God is walking with you through this entire journey. You can talk with him anytime and anywhere. You'll get through the storm with the help of God — you'll wade through the water. What you can do: • Cry ... if you must, but forget the "pity party." Instead, rejoice and give thanks to God that you were given a treatment plan. Remember what your options are if there is no plan for treatment! • Share your thoughts, concerns, and fears with a loved one who is a good listener. • Attend church. • Stay positive! Preparation Do not be taken by surprise! Know what to expect! Instead, prepare yourself, your family, and friends for the journey. Read, listen, and research your illness. Day Two Preparation "Trust the Lord with all your heart, and don't depend on your own understanding." — Proverbs 3:5 Prepare yourself for the journey mentally and emotionally, keeping in mind your caregivers are experiencing some of the same emotions and uncertainties you are experiencing. Keep an up-beat attitude by assuring each other that you will endure this journey together as one. What you can do: • Pray to God for the intelligence and knowledge you need to make the right decisions at this time. God will give you the tools you need to Understand why the treatment plan prescribed is best for you. • Ask questions and take notes. Get a clear understanding of your diagnosis and treatment plan. • Post your scheduled treatments and make arrangements to keep your appointments. • Follow your doctor's directions in regard to your treatment plan. • Decide how you will use your time during treatment. • Plan your wardrobe. Dress comfortably and in a manner that allows easy access to your IV port. • Determine who your primary caregiver/s will be and take time to thank them. And then take time to thank God for putting them in your life and keeping them there. Identify any alternate helpers who will be able to give relief to your primary caregiver/s. This not only allows your primary caregiver an opportunity to de-stress but it also allows others to help out, something they might need for themselves. Appreciation Do not constantly complain about your situation to others! Instead, appreciate the care and concern your support group has shown you! Day Three Appreciation "People harvest only what they plant." — Galatians 6:7 Appreciate life; don't just accept the fact that you are alive. Make a conscious decision to live. Continue to make plans to do all the things you had planned — and make arrangements to do them! Appreciate the blessing of family and friends, and know that they are going to be there for you. What you can do: • Thank God for all your blessings. Give special thanks for family and friends. Buy thank you cards. • Call your pastor and thank him for keeping you in his prayers and asking others to pray for you. • Take time to send thank you cards for the gifts of love you received during your initial diagnosis, but most of all thank them for their prayers, visits, and phone calls. • Take time to reflect on how much you are loved; know that God loves you most. • Stay clear of folks who send out negative vibes. • Call three people whom you enjoy talking to and who will make you laugh. • Take a walk and enjoy nature. Take a long look at the clouds, the sun and the moon, the flowers and the trees. Know that the Same awesome God who created these things, created you. And he will always be with you! Create an Oasis Do not